by page:
by category:
- Adult Industry
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- Advisor Amanda
- Art
- Movies
- Personal
- Random Bits
- Sex
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- Writing
every post so far:
- Tryst’s 2FA Options and Answers
- After “after hours”
- fast girl and slow girl
- the rest of my life
- a quick update
- Sex work burnout: a very long journey
- i’m finally publishing something
- rules for strippers
- go get that youtube $$$$, sex workers
- face or no face?
- fosta/sesta for online escorts
- how my personal choices affect everyone else who isn’t me
- moving past the backpage shutdown
- uptown thief
- longer tweeting III
- hobbyists offering business “advice”
- dec 17 — accessing justice
- imperfect victims
- bits and pieces 7
- surgery!
- pig in the poke
- life, death, and trust
- reactions vii
- thank you!
- help an activist
- legal prostitutes save lives!
- reactions vii
- two conversations about rape
- cliches and wrong ideas
- reactions vi
- just add water
- saving fish from drowning
- reactions v
- photographing food
- the silence-quest of mikey and stale horse
- dec 17 — violence
- don’t tread on me — or my friends
- reactions iv
- $2 bill documentary
- reactions iii
- porn vs brothels
- adult industry truth survey
- reactions ii
- things i’ve learned from movies and tv
- reactions
- longer tweeting II
- bits and pieces 6
- hobbyists in the mist
- getting away with murder in texas
- one former slave on helping cleveland kidnap victims
- escort rumor
- things i regret
- donations for victims
- hos before bros
- hints for clients
- directions
- escorts of the caribbean — at wit’s end
- verified vs reviewed
- dec 17 — survival
- seekers of knowledge
- animal trades
- a guide to legitimate rape
- review: legal tender
- robyn few — memoriam
- just pay her
- send a friend to north korea
- love em or leave em
- national geographic: sex for sale
- where pen-pals should go
- time-wasting activities
- criminalization vs having rights: the scandal
- the work-positive theory
- private activities that i enjoy
- the world according to stupid clients
- gratitude and growth
- dec 17 — back in the usa
- a little bit of progress
- longer tweeting
- escorts and sexual consent
- making escorts do…[whatever]
- backpage, ashton kutcher and prostitution
- ps: escort plagiarism
- clueless
- what are you really paying for? 4
- why craigslist matters
- criminalization affects more than “criminals”
- often imitated and duplicated — since 2002
- reinventing the escort
- singaporean “generosity”
- hiatus
- yes i am!
- ps: the invisible majority
- a natural history of the prostitute
- aerials
- sympathy for the she-devil
- the invisible majority and the PC exclusion factor
- how to be a boring sex worker
- from the mouths of sex workers
- dec 17 in hk
- prodigal escort
- exposure
- what are you really paying for? 3
- words for he-man hooker-haters
- my advancing decrepitude
- floating blossom
- pithy
- various post updates
- 10 signs a very professional hooker is staying at your hotel
- the economist debate
- married clients
- fun with Singaporean PSAs
- writing lesson
- finding perspective
- desiree alliance 2010 — register today!
- an arrest story
- prejudice
- sappy inspiration day
- no
- singapore — bastion of enlightenment, sensitivity and tolerance
- the american tube sock theory
- bits and pieces 5
- new book possibilities
- random escort musings
- random phone notes
- sex and the single escort
- working in Singapore
- virtual seeping into real life
- Dec 17, words and remembrance
- desiree alliance conference 2010
- UK prostitution and the MSM
- seriously (fixin’ to get ready to) travel
- counting my pearls
- at least i don’t write poetry
- what i did today
- what are you really paying for? 2
- online advertisers aren’t always netural
- yes, I ate them
- traveling as a “lifestyle”
- random news and bits
- work differences: london
- it’s the little differences — london
- advertising in london
- with sincere appreciation and gratitude
- what are you really paying for?
- because life is a cabaret
- i am collateral damage from the war on drugs
- the evolution of boundaries
- travel wishlist
- to dr. phil or not to dr. phil
- photo gallery test run
- and it begins
- dourly amused
- superior scribbler
- not always the total package (of looks and brains)
- writing/publishing advice
- travels: january/february
- deathless client responses
- terrorism is obviously a priority
- change is in the air
- tonight
- tagged again
- my first anthology
- on twitter
- best movie line ever
- notes from a free-range chicken
- the last day – day 10
- burning out – days 8 and 9
- the right to say no – days 6 and 7
- the wheels come off — day 5
- pavlovian prostitution – day 4
- legal part II
- i’m legal — day 3
- cramming my head – day 2
- making the trip – day 1
- shopping like a hooker
- processing pain, karmic debt and coming out
- disappointed readers?
- media and a sex worker
- an agency offer
- pimps are the bicycle that fish need
- amazon is a monopoly (apparently)
- un-retirement
- more media lessons
- learning lessons
- good job
- 123 meme
- what is authority? (expertise)
- a lech, a pimp and my rage
- sex propaganda posters
- writing diversity
- test your word power
- tracking your friends
- sex work is the new black
- customer relations
- numbers (or notches)
- sugasm #112
- the name game (again)
- taxing texas strip clubs
- working at home
- end violence against sex workers
- sex with coworkers
- a better book cover
- girl-on-girl “outing”
- #1 secret of business success revealed!
- self-publishing award
- alter egos
- george carlin on prostitution
- give me germs!
- strip clubs and economy (again)
- is Las Vegas degrading to women?
- woo-hoo!
- online hot dogs
- in UTNE Reader
- the conference: day 3
- the conference: day 2
- the conference: day 1
- hard candy
- update: strip clubs and the $2 bill
- modern chivalry
- reasons to work at hooters
- after the fact (stripping)
- clueless sex question #1
- (belated) news
- misused terminology (those two words)
- the mystery book
- republican call-girls
- collateral damage from the war on sex
- jerked around
- repackaging information
- popularity index
- medicinal sex (work)
- pet peeve questions
- friends rediscovered part II
- friends rediscovered part I
- Pollyanna never had it so good
- a little something
- off to work
- a “first time” story
- blog tag
- bits and pieces 4
- strip clubs and the $2 bill
- bad day for free speech
- exploration of the first amendment
- glamour magazine and HIV/AIDS
- blogging and online privacy survey
- national author’s day
- a squidoo convert
- how to sell books (globally)
- bits and pieces 3
- my adult industry history part VII
- prostitution arrests in dallas
- my adult industry history part VI
- a fistful of movies
- my adult industry history part V
- proof of karma
- my adult industry history part IV
- feeling loved friday
- a tale of two professional editors
- my adult industry history part III
- small publishing bits and pieces
- my adult industry history part II
- code like a girl
- steve irwin
- my adult industry history part I
- domain squatting
- an independent press success story
- star struck
- safari west
- on my retirement part II or how i learned to stop worrying and love monogamy
- just in case you were wondering why you’re always hungry…
- another damned post about publishing
- grooming venus
- obligatory construction notice
- IRS may start going after sex workers
- baynet and valleynet part II
- outsourcing in the small pub business
- eros (the movie)
- more on small presses
- i just can’t take myself anywhere
- addendum to “blurbing”
- blurbing
- free the twins!
- night
- “nonprofits” in the US
- badmash
- bits and pieces 2
- building a memory website
- …and i know where you called from
- i can buy your call records
- the small publishing industry
- cover designer part II
- i’m scary
- the after hours reading list
- a waste of money
- neither fish nor fowl
- gender-based education
- what is normal?
- a creative malcontent
- el macquinista
- further invasion of privacy
- the devastation of New Orleans
- racist movies?
- my everlasting book project part I
- behind every memory there are traces of tears
- Two Classic Movies about the Classic Career
- Pet Peeves of the Written Variety
- My New Blog Home
- A Beautiful Love Story
- My New Crush
- Disneyworld: Food and Lodging
- Bits and Pieces
- A Review: With Teeth
- Color Colour!
- The Way of the Courtesan
- Sex
- Irreversible
- On My Retirement Part I
- Not Smoking
- I don’t drink coffee
- My First Time
- setting up a feed